Mr. A

He added me up in Facebook late into the night, actually it was dawn when he added me and of course because I'm such a very friendly bloke, I confirmed his request. not long after he messaged me, saying thanks that I confirmed him and saying that I'm very cute( I already know that silly!) In my head thoughts are swarming over me but most of them tell me that this will be a "un mec excité à la recherche d'une rencontre sexuelle pour la nuit" but still I am pretty bored that night and also quite excited. so played with him. going into the usual sweet and a bit exciting messages he sent me then it was decided we go live. He was a middle aged guy, ages 30-35 years old, quite hot for the age, well buit, 6'1 in height and very, very excited. to make the story short and still age appropriate(LOL), we ended our night in good terms. I thought that would be the end of it but alas, he started talking to me, I hate that when it happens because it means that he is starting to get into me which I am doubtful about it. Still, I talked and chatted with him for a few minutes which stretched into hours. While I was talking to him, I felt something different, it seems that he is quite different from the guys I have usually encountered before and a very different for that. Until now, we are still friends; I mean close friends. we share intimate and personal stories now but I still have doubts, What if this one will just be the same with the rest of the guys I have dated and have nearly fallen in love with?

Think Thank Sunday

as what the title specifies I have 2 things to consider this beautiful and everlasting sunday.

Think

its been coming into me for a while lately, every year I sometimes to some things repeatedly but all of the same, I ended up in misery. Love and Dating should be a Trial and Error technique in order to come up with the correct and right choice for you and your loved one but sometimes, Its been tiring doing the usual routine everyday, You meet up, find more about each other, become friends then it ends there. I don't know why or what I have done but sometimes I blame myself for being it. Sometimes I have forsaken the true people that have loved and cared for me just because of this kind of set-up but when I woke up this morning I have been illuminated by what this is all about why we come to the 2nd thing I consider today which is

Thank

As I started doing my usual morning routine, I have been dumbstruck by this quote that I heard in the radio," You should not give up on what you really want, sometimes people and problems will try and bring you to the brink of giving up but that's just life. Just wait for the right time and lo and behold, it will come your way" It only dawned on me that there's a right time for everything and I should be thankful for what I have right now . Sometimes due to our ambition to reach the goal that we really want, we sometimes forget that whats important for today are the things right in front of you and are waiting for you to be with them. Happy Sunday!

Stalker

As I went to the mall this afternoon, one of my EX’s texted me. he said that he saw me in the mall and is currently following me. I was overwhelmed with the feeling of Confusion, Surprise and Wonder. Confusion in the sense that I have ditched him years ago but until now, even though I’m actively dating and very happy with that status, He still follows and knows where I’m at. I can still remember the days when I was the one who follows me around, like a lapdog in distress. I already know how to let go and learn to deal with persons who does and doesn’t care and love me at all. Surprise in the sense that how many times I have a go at him every time he communicates with me, he still wonders and cares for me. I could still remember the days he would have a go at me whenever I care for him. Wonder in the context that how bad and ill-treatment he got from me, he still wonder about me. I could only say that what goes around comes around. I’m now perfectly happy and contented with what I have right now and no other thing in this world can overcome it.

Google +

Last 3 days ago, I was asked by my dear friend there in Aussie ” I’ll add you up in my circle”. I asked her ” What circle?”. me unknowingly asking a very basic question about what it is. She then explained to me about Google Plus. Well, I’ve heard about it for months ago already mainly as a counterpart against Facebook but she also explained to me the wonderful benefits and possibilities of Google Plus so as I was very curious about it, I joined and made an account with it. At first I was utterly confused and bamboozled with all these new features and how to use it. The main difference of it with Facebook is that Google Plus has a bit more privacy than the latter, Google Plus has circles which in turn functions as a group of friends that you sort depending on what circle they belong. I can’t say more about it because I’m still a noob at it. I can’t wait to discover more and be mesmerized by this new way of social networking but the important thing is whether you use Facebook, Google Plus or any other social networking site, It connects us to the people we love in this modern and uber modernized world we all live in.

The Call

minutes ago, i was just doing my own business in my room( reading books etc) when my phone suddenly rang. I picked it up and saw on the screen the words ” Call”, I have been a freak in talking to cellphones especially when its a new number or no number at all! I usually don’t answer them and leave them until they get tired of calling my number. I don’t know why I have this fear of answering cellphones but I can;t really explain when did it start. as I was planning to ignore the call I remember him. he can only be the one who would call me from abroad but in my mind I wondered, “I already registered his number in my contacts, why isn’t it appearing?” then I remembered that he was just transferred to SG by the company he is currently working with so I hastily picked up the call. As soon as I heard his voice over the line, thoughts about him suddenly came gushing into my mind. As if he was just here again in the Phils calling me regularly at night, talking about his day and stuff. I greeted him with the usual tone, he asked how was I doing, Have I been taking care of myself, the usual questions to be asked then suddenly he shared that one of his colleagues will be coming here in Cebu next week. he then asked me if I could come to SG for a couple of days. my thoughts were screaming ” Hell yeah! you should go to SG and be with him! its time for you to be happy!” but also, reality kicks in. No budget for the trip as in zero balance, How can I go out of the country without my formidable parents noticing then many more thoughts. I said to him” why won’t you come here instead? its only 3 and a half hours away by plane and fares are usually in promo with the LCCs” then he explained that if he has the budget then he will come. I couldn’t mandate him to come here, after all I think I’m just his 2nd priority but still I like him no matter what happens, I have fallen pretty badly with this person. we ended up the conversation with sweet notions and happy thoughts. at least, he still remembers me and I think he still cares for me.

Tumblr!

Yes! I officially now have a tumblr account! after 48 years of waiting for being active and ive been into a long hibernation at last! the blog has calling on me to write again! even if my schedule is way way busy but still ill find a way in updating my life to you everyday. hope this means a New beginning on me!

Ayala Center Cebu...

since I was a kid, only one mall has stolen my heart and it is ACC or as we local folks call it here "Ayala". Ayala Center Cebu opened in 1994 and is located at Cebu Business Park, which is Ayala Land property. it is currently managed by Cebu Holdings Inc., an affiliate of Ayala Land Inc. it is the crown jewel of Cebu Business Park, it is in the center of the business park. Many people think of Ayala as a very upscale mall that only the rich and the nouveau rich can only go and shop there but the true sense of it, everyone and anyone can go and have a shopping or window shopping experience there. It maybe due to the upscale ambiance that Ayala has brought with it that's why it has been seen as a mall for the rich and famous. ACC has changed Cebu's shopping experience and habits. Cebuanos has now been exposed to brands only we can heard of at television and commercials. Since 1994, the Upper and middle class markets have grown in leaps and bounds due to the warm reception of cebuanos to Ayala. foot traffic in Ayala can reach at a all time high of 150,000 to 200,000 during weekends and holidays. when you walk inside ACC, you feel relaxed and a bit rested because you can't feel the usual rush of people and crammed shoppers that you can usually see in a mall. Filipinos like the one - stop - shop concept of shopping and malls in the Philippines have adapted to that concept. You can find clothes, shoes and other things at bargain prices but when you look at it, it doesn't seem to look like it justifies the price you have bought it with. Sure, there's the boutiques wherein you can find things that are priced way way beyond your budget spectrum but not all of the boutiques in ayala are like that. As I can see it, Ayala offers a shopping experience to everyone. When I have friends, family and colleagues that visit Cebu, I really put it in their list to visit ACC because I want them to experience the things we cebuanos have been experiencing for the past 17 years. ACC continues to expand and give us a more diverse and a very fulfilling shopping and dining experience with the opening of "The Terraces" and its continuing construction with its Phase 2 which will complete the ACC complex. 17 years has passed and still, I'm not bored when I go to Ayala because every time I go there to either shop, dine or just have fun, ACC offers a new, fun and enjoyable experience we can cherish for years to come.

You can visit their official website at : http://www.ayalamalls.com.ph/ or see them at facebook at :http://www.facebook.com/AyalaCebu

2011.. New Year and a New Beginning

Its been almost a year since I last posted on this blog. it has been a very trying and busy 2010 for me. Busy in parts of the family life, school life and business life. Love has been evasive last year but I think it was really meant to run that way. 2011 will bring more challenges and new endeavors for me to overcome and achieve. I still have not yet re - invented myself as what I have promised last year but this year, Im going to have a big switch that I think will change my life forever. Drastic changes can result to devastating results so I'm taking this one baby step at a time. 2011 will be a New Year and a New Beginning not just for me but also for this blog as well. Kudos!